Surrogacy is a remarkable journey—one built on compassion, trust, and medical precision. For women interested in becoming surrogates, understanding the health requirements is an essential part of the process. One common question that arises is: Can you be a surrogate if you have herpes?
Herpes is a prevalent condition, affecting a large portion of the population. Yet, the topic remains shrouded in stigma and confusion, especially in relation to pregnancy and surrogacy. In this blog post, we’ll explore whether a herpes diagnosis disqualifies you from being a surrogate, what the medical and agency-specific guidelines say, and what other conditions may impact your eligibility.
Can You Be a Surrogate with Herpes?
Understanding Herpes and Its Types
Herpes is a viral infection caused by the Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV) and is classified into two types:
- HSV-1: Often associated with oral herpes, HSV-1 typically causes cold sores around the mouth. However, it can also appear in the genital area through oral-genital contact.
- HSV-2: Commonly linked to genital herpes, HSV-2 is transmitted primarily through sexual contact and may present as painful blisters or ulcers in the genital region.
Both types are manageable and do not always cause noticeable symptoms. Many individuals carry the virus unknowingly. If you want to know more, speak with your doctor on possible tests, medication, and prevention that can help with herpes.
Medical Perspective on Herpes and Pregnancy
Having herpes does not automatically disqualify someone from becoming a surrogate. In fact, many women with herpes go on to have healthy pregnancies and deliveries. The key factor is how well the condition is managed.
During pregnancy, it’s important to monitor for outbreaks—especially close to delivery. If an outbreak occurs near the time of labor, medical providers may recommend a Cesarean section (C-section) to prevent the rare but serious possibility of transmitting the virus to the baby, known as neonatal herpes.
In most cases, antiviral medications are used during the third trimester to suppress the virus and reduce the risk of transmission. If this is a concern for you, speak with your health care provider for more in-depth education.
Surrogacy Agency Guidelines
At Surrogacy by Faith, having herpes or HPV does not disqualify a woman from becoming a surrogate. Herpes or HPV does not cause complications during pregnancy and is rarely transmitted to the baby.
That said, proper management of the condition is crucial. If an outbreak occurs near delivery, a C-section may be required. Agencies prioritize the health and safety of both the surrogate and the baby, so open and honest communication with medical professionals is essential. If you are afraid of your herpes or HPV diagnosis standing in the way of surrogacy, speak with trained professionals in the medical and surrogacy field for more in-depth advice and reassurance.
Surrogate Health Requirements
Even if you have herpes, you may still meet the general health requirements for surrogacy. Every agency has specific guidelines, and at Surrogacy by Faith, the surrogate requirements are clearly outlined.
Basic Requirements Include:
- Age: Must be between 21 and 37 years old.
- Health: Non-smoker and in excellent health, with a BMI of 29 or below.
- Pregnancy History: Must have given birth within the last 5 years and be raising at least one child.
- Pregnancy Outcomes: All prior births must have occurred at 36 weeks gestation or later without complications.
- Financial Stability: Must not be receiving state or federal financial aid.
- Residency: Must live in a state where compensated surrogacy is legal.
- Citizenship: Must be a U.S. citizen or legal permanent resident.
- Medical Compliance: Willingness to undergo injections and medical procedures, including subcutaneous and intramuscular injections.
These baseline qualifications ensure that the surrogate is physically, emotionally, and legally prepared for the process.
Medical and Psychological Evaluations
In addition to meeting physical criteria, surrogates must pass a series of medical and psychological evaluations:
- Comprehensive Medical Screenings: Includes bloodwork, infectious disease testing, and a full physical examination.
- Psychological Evaluation: Conducted to ensure emotional readiness, stability, and an understanding of the surrogacy process.
- Medication Requirements: Candidates must be off antidepressants and anti-anxiety medications for at least one year before applying.
- Support Network: A stable family environment and strong emotional support system are essential for a positive surrogacy experience. Agencies like Southern Surrogacy also emphasize this criterion.
What Medical Conditions Disqualify You from Surrogacy?
While herpes alone does not disqualify someone from being a surrogate, there are other medical and lifestyle-related conditions that can.
Medical Disqualifications:
- Diabetes (including gestational diabetes)
- Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS)
- Endometriosis
- HIV, hepatitis B or C
- Hysterectomy or absence of a uterus
- History of complicated pregnancies
These conditions are typically considered high-risk and may affect the health of the surrogate or the baby.
Lifestyle and Psychological Disqualifications:
- History of smoking, alcohol abuse, or drug use
- Current use of psychiatric medications
- Unstable home environment
- Receiving public assistance or financial aid
Surrogacy requires a strong commitment and high standards for physical and emotional health, which is why agencies have strict screening processes.
For a complete list, you can visit the Surrogacy by Faith disqualifications page.
Can you be a Surrogate with an STD
The answer depends on the specific STD and how it is managed. In the case of herpes, as discussed, it does not automatically disqualify you. Other STDs such as HIV or untreated hepatitis may disqualify someone due to the high risk of transmission and potential pregnancy complications.
Agencies and fertility clinics typically require STI screenings as part of the surrogate evaluation process. If you test positive for an STD, the next step will depend on:
- The type of infection
- Whether it is chronic or treatable
- The risk of transmission to the baby
- Whether the condition is well-managed
If you’re living with herpes and it’s under control with minimal to no outbreaks, you still have a very good chance of being approved, so speak with agencies like Surrogacy by Faith for better understanding.
Give the Gift of Life with Surrogacy By Faith
Herpes is manageable and not considered a high-risk condition if you work with a medical team to monitor your health. Surrogacy by Faith understands the realities of this common condition and does not automatically disqualify surrogates with herpes.The key is to ensure proper medical management, maintain honest communication, and be ready to follow your doctor’s recommendations—such as a C-section if an outbreak occurs before labor.
If you believe you meet the general health and lifestyle requirements and are passionate about helping a family grow, don’t let a manageable condition like herpes hold you back. Reach out to surrogacy professionals at Surrogacy by Faith to discuss your individual circumstances, receive personalized advice, and take the next step toward becoming a surrogate. If you’re interested in becoming a surrogate or pursuing parenthood through surrogacy, fill out our surrogate form or intended parent form today. We’ll be with you every step of the way to help bring the gift of life into the world!